Juny's Space

For those who really know me, would have noticed that I haven't been online the last couple of nights. I don't want to give too much away just in case it will affect things, but following are the news headline from WIN television.

 

Dalmeny Bashing An 82 year old man is in hospital after being attacked at his home in Dalmeny last night.

 

Another man was found with injuries in a nearby house, and police say they're close to making an arrest.

 

 What's normally a quiet neighbourhood was anything but today, as forensic services scoured the crime scene for clues.

Police were called to this house in Tatiara Street just after 9:00pm last night, finding an 82 year-old man suffering serious head injuries and stab wounds to the chest.

 

Police also attended another residence nearby, finding a 39 year-old man suffering facial injuries. He was taken to Moruya hospital, in a stable condition.

 

Police say they've got some good leads.

 

Anyone with information is asked to call Narooma Police, or Crime Stoppers.

Dalmeny Assault Police are yet to make an arrest over a violent assault at Dalmeny on Wednesday night.

 

An 82 year-old man was bashed and stabbed at his home in Tatiara Street.

He's now in the Canberra hospital and his condition is listed as satisfactory.

 

A 39 year old man was found in a nearby house, suffering facial injuries. He's since been released from Moruya hospital.

 

Forensic officers from Wollongong and Queanbeyan remained at the property until late last night.

 

Yesterday, police said they had some strong leads, but they're yet to make an arrest.

Wow, its like break up season again or something. A few friends I know have unfortunately come across the inevitable situation, for those of you who are lucky enough to not have had your heart broken, I give you my best wishes, but to those of you who have, I like to offer you.... juny top 5 tips to get over it and move on.

 

1. Call someone - there's no better way to get those horrible feelings out then to call someone. I know it might be hard sometimes to call someone and start pouring your heart and soul out. But I think one of the most important things of letting that sorrow out, is to literally let it out to someone, somewhere, it could be a penpal through email, long lost high school friend, some random off the street and obviously your closest friends who are always willing to listen. You will be surprise how compassionate people are to listening to you problems, because they may remember once that they were in the same position and really needed someone to listen to.

 

2. Work - arrrr what better way to keep you mind off things then to work, why not make the most of it and commit your time and effort to things that will advance your career, grow your wealth rather then moping around about the lost. I once had a friend that mope (you know who you are), I'm a true believer that things will get better in time, but in the mean time why not make the most of it and transfer the bad into good for something else.

 

3. Go out and do things - yes it sounds a lot easier than done, but hey you have to do it. Do the things that you always wanted to do but never got the chance. Your life is changing you must take the chance and go out there. Obviously you are not going to meet you next mr/mrs perfect by sitting at home. Go out, not necessary clubbing never really find these places attractive anyway. But why not try the firned that you promise you would always see, but never did, hey maybe the museum, a new sport, when your out there's a much more higher probability that you meet people, the right people. I always believe the most interesting people, all the best friends you are ever going to make might be sitting right next to you on the bus/train. They may not lead to anything special, but hey all you need is a good laugh and some fun right, there are so many amazing people out there, go out and meet them.

 

4. Self confidence - wow the things start to get harder as it goes down the list hey. This one is kinda of important, obviously your heart has been broken, something went wrong, someone left you for whatever reason and you definitely feel a little down and a little ugly or useless. I don't know how to say this and i don't know how effective this would be over a blog. But look at yourself in the mirror and trust me this is very very important, you are beautiful no matter what someone says or do, you are amazing. Alright its not really working, but what i'm trying to say there is many people out there for everyone, and just because someone has left you for someone. something else doesn't mean your not good enough, its there lost. There's many many people who will apppreciate you just the way you are, i truly truly believe there's someone out there for everyone, you just need to realise that, it might take time but there is.

 

5. Grieve - alright, cry, cry ,cry ....... recently asked Mr. Hottie and even he cries, so there you go, everyone cries but do it as many times as it requires, until your tears dry and up and pick up the pieces in your life and starting building it again. for some its a few hours, some its a few days, take as long as you need, heal, however long it takes but never give up, because its really true that time really heals the pain.

 

And to wrap it up, a once amazing stranger once said to me, the most important thing in life is to find someone that is your equal, someone that treats you with equal respect, equal trust and equal love, that someone/someones is out there, so pick up the pieces of your heart and sleep, because tomorrow is a much much brighter day.

 

love,

juny

Alright I must be pretty bored since i'm bloggin once again, ummm the last comment i got was i talk about really lifey stuff in my blogs, well i guess thats the few ideas that i just would like to share with you guys.

 

I was thinking last night, happy fat, the fat you get when your happy. you how when you go out with a bunch of friends and you have dinner, then dessert then coffee and then before you know it your healthly diet that you thought about on monday is way out the window.

 

Ohhhh its great at new work, been controlling quite well during lunch time. Unlike previously when i ate with my manager not only would we order one meal eat, if we saw something we both like we would order that as well, then once again before you know we had a massive massive lunch. But thats it, with company you definitely tend to eat more, well i do anyways.

 

So thinking bout to last week, ummm i had cheescake thursday, friday night, bbq all day saturday, then lunch on sunday which included dessert as well. slightly over indulging.

 

Alright i know what you guys are all saying, the whole company thing making you eat more is just an excuse for me, what i really should be doin is hitting the gym, true true fact and i will soon motivate myself to work off that winter slash accumulated pudge since summer. :).

 

arrrhhh think there's more bbq's this weekend, dammit more over indulging.

 

Love,

Juny

 

Everyone has them, everyone has a favourite food, favourite movie and favourite people. Be it your favourite orphan, your favourite tutorial student or your favourite friend.

 

My latest thing, although not latest is the fact that I have a top 5, yep a friend once said to me you only have a few good friends and then u have a gazillion acquintances. Do u think its true?

 

I assure that fact, giving the time in my life I only regularly keep in contact with a bunch of close friends, but I would consider everyone my friend. .

 

Ummm so how did i come to that conclusion well it was way back at the start of the year and given a limited number of phone calls i could make i decided to only call the few that i really really wanted to, so thats how i came to my conclusion.

 

But isn't it true, when you think of the times when your friend called u to pick them up in the middle of the night. Be it the best time of your life or the saddest time in your life you realise who are the people that around you that you place as important. Ever get that feeling when you have been just promoted or something fantatic just happened to you and you turn around and see who can u tell the good news to. Its usually the most important people in your life that you call first. And then there are bad times, i mean not many people like to hear bad news but when there's somone to listen ...... well thats priceless.

 

ummmm so what keeps me going and going from time to time. Well i guess its the emails I get, the random sms i recieve asking me what i'm doing and the dear hope that someday it will happen again. what's important is there people out there who care if you are dead or alive.

 

Arrhhhh its nearly 10pm and i'm sooo buggered from work :). I'm really talking crap in this blog so if you are actually reading, i apologies for the crap i  have just rambled on about.

 

Hopes and dreams,

June

Well well so whats happening in my world lately. Nothing heaps exciting, just the usual i'm whinging about work and still can't decide if I want to stay or pack my bags and leave. Arhhhh the delimmas in life.

 

Neway getting off my boring topic of work which I always go on about lately. We all know how us (which most likely include those of you who are reading my blog) bag out asians. The fobby ones that have a gizzilion stickers on there phone, and have so many stuff toys in the back of their car ...its an accident about to happen.

 

Even though I make fun of them all the time, i have manage to make a few friends during my 4hrs of class I have on Thursday. One of them being "Jing", she's a very sweet girl, and works at the local yum cha restaurant in Chatswood. Although I must say I admire her because she works very hard and at a very low rate to help out her parents supporting her studies in Australia. One thing i don't understand is why she doesn't study harder but i guess she's heaps busy with work and if i remember back, at her age i wasn't studying very hard either.

 

Neway Jing also lives in Chatswood but requires public transport home from club mac that would probably mean 1.5hrs just to get home and having to walk about 30min from station to home. I offered her a lift her one night and realised how much trouble it was for her to go home, and decided if i'm lucky enough to have an amazing dad that bought me a car to drive around the least i could do is to help out a friend right. So ever since that night I have decided to go out of my way a little and give her a lift home every thursday night. Its kinda of my little feel good thing for myself, u know that whole selfless act kinda of thing, but i get the satisfaction of thinking i'm a semi decent person so its not a selfless act :).

 

Continuing on with my story, Jing has always said to me that if i was to ever go Yum Cha she'll look after me and give me some dishes for free because she's one of the trolley chicks. Me and my mates went today and I don't know if I can explain this as well in words but it was awesome. She called me in advance and ask if I was coming and to prank her when I arrived, but we had to act like we didn't know each other so the managers wouldn't get suss.The whole yum cha experience was totally different, Me and my friends were treated like royalty at one stage we had three trolley next to our table, service with a smile (as if you ever get that in a chinese restaurant)....... it was funny because my friends said i was like a "godfather" figure of the table (but a female equivalent..which would be godmother, but then that wouldn't have the same ring to it, so in the end i was like the nonna figure .... ummm have to watch a episode of Sorpranos to figure that one out). But its was hilarous seeing the tricks of the trade on how to scam free food, we filled our stomachs to the max and it only cost us $15 bucks per head pretty good I reckon.

 

So the moral of this blog i guess is, not all fobby asians are annoying people who can't drive and have ridiculous values. And sometimes the sweetest things in life is giving and not expecting to recieve.

 

Promise not to pay out asians as much (well try my best :P)

 

Love,

Juny